Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Chapter 15: Pere Lachaise


Today was a big day for me in some small respects. I spent the day off exploring on my own. I ordered and conversed with the locals completely in French. I got lost and found, then lost again sitting down in the most amazing city watching as it passed by me. It felt good. I felt good. I was finally beginning to let go and give in to the spirit of Paris. I was becoming a big boy in the traveler sense :)

I left Lotfi's mid-morning, walking past the cafe with all the cute Barista's working inside (we will no doubt remember them won't we buddy?!) I decided to take it easy today and not rush anything in hopes of seeing everything; I had come to terms with the colossal history of France and just being there for the moment was all I needed to experience. That said, I went down the street and got a crepe with champignons and fromage from the street vendor. Good eating. Then I decided to have myself an espresso and a smoke at the corner brasserie (rolled by hand of course--I was getting pretty good at this now!) When I sat outside I was greeted by a very friendly waiter in his early twenties with dark hair and chiseled features. He reminded me of myself at that age (minus the chisel) and some other people that I used to work with at Mr A's back in the day, except that we both didn't speak the same language, but we kind of did. I sat there for a while sipping and smoking, admiring the cute little glass of water they bring to you when you order a coffee and the little straw-shaped packet of sugar. The sun was shining amongst the clouds, the people passed by on their way and I was finally connected completely to it all. Rad as hell.



Afterwards I got on the metro and headed to Pere Lachaise, the biggest cemetery I've ever seen. When I got there I passed by the tourists loitering out front and walked down the cobblestone walkway, or rather up. The whole place weaved around like a sleeping dragon's body; what a place to lay your head down.







I realized that everyone had gotten maps of the cemetery--which was several square miles in size--everyone but me; I had missed the maps by missing the loitering at the gate. It was too late to walk back so I went upwards to get a better view of it all.

As the path leveled off I found myself at a clearing, a park with several benches and a view of the grounds below. There were numerous paths leading in all different directions down the slopes and disappearing into the trees. This was very nice. People were reading and couples were cuddling--not your average cemetery. I stayed for a bit and then headed off to find Jim Morrison’s grave--the one with all the people crowded around it--or so I'd heard. On my way there I found a nice little roundabout with a statue in its center. I sat a bit more, asked a British girl for directions and was on my way.

When I got there I was surprised at how simple it was: a squared headstone adorned with only flowers and candles. I wondered why he had come to rest in such a modest grave. Was it his own wish? Or did he fall victim to some bloodthirsty lawyer? I ended up wandering towards exit while trying to find Chopin's grave. When I heard the guards ringing their bells (think Monty Python's "Bring out your dead") I tried to slink into the shadows, but they gave me the look of death so I thought it best to leave quietly; I wasn't ready to join Jim just yet.





Pictures

Here's the link to the full set of pictures: http://www.coirewalker.com/gallery/main.php








Chapter 14: Don't Look Down



It was now Saturday, or Sunday, or Friday. No wait--it wasn't Friday. So being Satursunaday and with little time left to get all my touristy things put away, I knew I just HAD to get to the top of the Eiffel Tower. Good thing too because I got a lot of great shots.

The line was long and the weather was pretty hot for Paris in June. I noted a squad of France military in full dress and armed to the teeth, no doubt there for any possible terrorist threats. Something made me uneasy about knowing I had no citizens rights and that those were real M-16's with real bullets inside. I took a few steps back inside my mind. Kinda freaky...

Aside from the couple of assholes who cut the back half of the line and kept trying to muscle their way past me and the nice couple from Jersey in front of me it was all worth waiting for. I got a glass of wine when I was on the first level and spilled some... Seeing Paris from the sky is unbelievable. I caught the sunset and I didn't let it go.




I called Lotfi from the top; we met up later and headed to Cat's house for a little BBQ. She lived close outside the city in a pretty nice place with it's own backyard. I met Silva, Saul's roommate and talked a bit with William, Cat's boyfriend. I still remember the talks--that Silva was taking time-off from his job and that William was about to go on tour as Soulfly's sound tech, Silva's bad English, my worse French, and the laughs we had trying to converse. Great food too. They were all impressed with my consumption of hot mustard, which isn't something those boys have a pallet for. Good ol' SD taco shops are great primer...

Looking back I miss the passion they have. It's been a long time since I've found people who are truly passionate about punk music. I felt a bit like I was reminiscing with high school buddies. We watched some videos of Will's band on the Internet and headed out. Thanks for the ride Cat!



Chapter 13: Man Date

Sometime between the party at Fab's place and the party at Cat's place Lotfi and I went out on a man date to this Ethiopian restaurant. We were a cute couple, haha. The place was small--kind of a converted office space or something turned quaint dining area--and surprisingly slow for it being a Friday night. Great food though, really unbelievable. The girl to my left was gorgeous. Lotfi and I both took note of her taking note of us. Never underestimate the power of the man date in full effect.

When we left we headed over to the Latin Quarter to catch some jazz via my request several days earlier. For those who live in San Diego the Latin Quarter equates to the Gaslamp on a Friday night. For those of you who live elsewhere just think Maxim Magazine VIP party meets Sharper Image Christmas Party meets your moms face. We couldn't stop laughing as we made our way through it all. I'm actually impressed that somehow these people thrive all over the world. Can we please buy them their own island the next time we vote for another stadium? Please?

Dip-shitism aside the Latin Quarter is very cool: lots of small cramped old buildings, basement bars, alleyways by lantern's light and tons of natural vibe. We ended up going down into the basement of Caveau des Dubliettes and catching this Latin jazz band. This place must've been a dungeon at a time--seriously. The stairs that led down from the ground level were carved out of solid rock, the walls were brick and the ceiling was a brick arch with a small grate in the top center where I saw the feet of those above us shuffling around in bar conversation. It was hot as hell in there and smelled like mold, but that made it all the more immersive. We sat down at a galley-style table made from an old barrel and ordered a round, watching the ladies salsa dance in front of us. I wish I'd taken a picture. I remember the band consisting of a female vocalist who shared duties with a guy who played a large hand drum, followed by stand-up bass, guitar and keys. Great vibes. I do not remember what happened after we left. True story.

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